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A recovery model for use in conjunction with 12-step programs or on its own. Dusty Miller's treatment model for addiction and self-injury, outlined in the best-selling Women Who Hurt Themselves, has been expanded in this new work to include the physical and spiritual impact of trauma. This how-to manual introduces new ways of thinking about self-care, self-soothing, and self-expression. ... Read more

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"New, scientifically-based approaches that recognize the biological basis of addiction have brought major advances in the treatment of addiction. Dr. Urschel is at the forefront of this treatment paradigm."
Dr. Larry Hanselka, Psychologist

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Bald and biased claims mixed with way too much marketing and self-promotion
Urschel's book is quite simply intellectually dishonest.He obviously knows his stuff, but the book reads like a multi-level marketing scheme filled with a bunch of simply wrong-headed claims with no references to speak of to back them up.

"Talking therapy can help correct problems in the cortex, but it cannot influence the limbic system or other structures found deeper in the brain."

This is bogus, just bogus, and he provides no reference. Where is he coming up with this??? As a therapist who studies neuroscience, he's just flat wrong.There's not a neuroscience lab in the world that would agree with this statement.Look at the work of Richie Davidson at U of Wisconsin, Jim Coan at U of Virginia, Daniel Siegel at UCLA, Dacher Keltner at UCLA, Jon Kabat-Zinn at U of Mass., and the list goes on and on.

His constant use of "talking therapy" to refer to psychotherapy and counseling, and the contexts in which he used it felt a little bit denigrating after a while, again from a guy who obviously has a severe case of money-making agenda-itis.

Reading the book felt like he was just trying to discredit everything except his "wonder drug" and his highly expensive website services.

Apart from that, if you're an addict or looking for help for an addict, just go to his website and see what it costs to sign up -- if you want to pay that, then get the book.But there are a lot better books out there and some great research (despite what Urschel says) that are showing excellent results...I would pass on this guy's magic pill.

Awesome
Very important subject; tools to assist in the recovery of substances are extremely valuable. New information is necessary to keep us all up to date.A Synchronous Memoir of Addiction and Recovery
Aaron Bryant: BSW, CSAC Author

Not for reasonably intelligent people
Before you buy this book, click on the "Look inside!" link and choose First pages, and if you are aren't offended by the writing style then go ahead and buy the book. I am looking for concrete science-based explanations, not condescending blather addressing me as if I were a not-very-bright adolescent, with expressions like "talking cells" and "listening cells".Really?What ARE these cells? What precisely does he mean by "talking" and "listening"?I was so offended I didn't buy the book, especially after looking in index as well and finding that dopamine, a key player in addiction, is mentioned on only three pages in the book.

A thoroughly modern take on substance abuse.
Years of dealing with individuals attempting to walk the straight and narrow path of sobriety have led to many insights into addiction and recovery.Yet, as I have introduced clients to the recovery process, I have not had a sound source of scientific evidence to explain the changes in their brains and the basis for their anxiety and cravings. In clear and understandable terms the author of Healing the Addicted Brain reveals the scientific underpinnings of addiction, withdrawal, and recovery. Now I know why high anxiety marks every waking hour of the addict in recovery and how cravings lead to relapse. Being able to explain the process in lay terms to a hard core addict is one of the most difficult parts of my job.This book is a fantastic resource to assist in the education of clients and to use as a guide through the difficult days of early recovery.

Addicts and Loved One's as Cash-Generating Machines?
I expected more from a doctor that has made it his career to "help" alcoholics and addicts.

Throughout the book, the author repetitively tells the reader to access more information and resources at the EnterHealth's (the rehab facility the author is affiliated with) website... of course the author never once mentioned that to access that information and those resources would cost $95 and rapidly escalate up for telephone support (and given the track record, that access will probably point the reader to residential rehab at EnterHealth's facility).Most sales brochures are free, but this one puts the addict and family backabout $11.

Also, the climax of this book seems to be the author's fascination with Vivitrol (injectible naltrexone).Author (page 73): "Vivitrol is the breakthrough medicine that will revolutionize the treatment of alcoholism."Really? In its page-after-page of glowing review the author fails to mention any real downside.Such as throughout a randomized trial of Vivitrol craving persisted (leaving patients to struggle over obsessive thoughts and addictive craving that carry the risk of relapse and death) and there was no progressive decrease in heavy drinking days after the end of the trial. [Source: "Naltrexone treatment for alcohol dependency," Journal of the American Medical Association 294(8) (August 24/31, 2005): 899-900]And, those with liver issues should not take Vivitrol, ... a problem for a certain percentage of people that are alcoholic.That the author doesn't even mention some fascinating research into other medications, such as Baclofen -- a generic no less, shows either bias or ignorance of current trends in research and thought.

I was trying to look for some positive information from the book to make this review seem more balanced, but all such information can be retrieved elsewhere (other contemporary addiction recovery books or online).

Unnecessarily taking money from people struggling with alcoholism or addiction should be considered unethical.

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From the author of Day By Day, comes the best new book for the chemically dependent in recovery.This book is designed as a basic 24/7 form of support and contains a reflection and positive statement for every hour of the day for 31 days. It is full of the wisdom of the old-timers, 12-Step slogans, and brief, no bull help for the HALT moments. Now you can carry a little bit of fellowship with you wherever you go. ... Read more

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ANYTIME YOU NEED IT SUPPORT
This little pocket size book has been vital for those times when I need to get out of my own head for a second in a healthy way and gain nurishing food for thought. I've thought many times about the message I've received when I opened it up, it's right where I am emotionally even if I don't really want to see it at the time. I hasn't failed yet to deliver just what I need to hear when I need to hear it.
I've since purchased The Pocket Sponsor for all my sponcees and they love it. I've given them as gifts and used them as topics for discussion groups. There isn't one person that I've shared this little book with that doesn't agree that it has powerful messages.
It's a terrific book!!! I carry it on the motorcycle, in my purse, in my pocket, it even goes to the beach with me.
I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to have acceptance of others, gratitude and some peace of mind in their lives. That's how it works for me anyway, one day at a time and sometimes one minute at a time. Whatever works for you.

So Helpful
This book fits right in my pocket and when I feel a little shaky about keeping clean and sober I just take it out and read the meditation for that day and hour.I'm always surprised about how many times it hits the nail on the head and I go on with my day clean and sober!!!

Wisdom for every hour of every day
From John Howard Prin, author of STOLEN HOURS: Breaking Free From Secret Addictions, Syren Books, 2004

This dandy tool belongs in every recovering addict's pocket. I consider it a tool because for anyone who was once captive to addictive urges its small size contains huge pay-offs -- it serves the person seeking sobriety as a combination daily devotional/day planner. Regardless of what time of day or night (or week or month), the POCKET SPONSOR provides pithy advice.

It is divided into 24 brief paragraphs-with-sayings for every hour of each day, Day 1 through Day 31. Like one's sponsor in an AA or other 12-Step group, it provides the guidance and encouragement in writing that the sponsor would usually provide in conversation. Designed as a basic 24/7 form of support, it allows the beginner, or those beginning again, to carry a little bit of the fellowship from their 12-step meetings with them wherever they go.

As a professional counselor and recovering individual myself, I agree with the author when she says, "Anytime during the day that you feel uneasy, find the day and hour and read your message...Again and again, you will discover new passages that are exactly what you need at that moment."
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A detailed guide to clinical assessment and treatment of cocaine addiction, this is a concise book that emphasizes on outpatient treatment and relapse prevention strategies. ... Read more

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Cocaine addiction
This book is very treatment oriented. However there is some good information as to the addiction itself.Skimmed over alot of parts of it.

Knowledge of Addiction
This book offered an insite into the why of addiction. It also offered steps to stay on the path of being drug free, and how to avoid the pit falls of using drugs again.To be honest with ones self-evaluation and to understand the long range effects of using Cocaine is also discussed in this book. An Extemely benificial read.

Pure Facts
Written in '89, this book is as current as can be.Extremely helpful, specially for family of addicts.Very clearly and to the point, it covers all the facts; onset of desease, progression, treatment and most important relapse prevention.A must read if someone you love is cocaine dependent.What an eye opener!Highly recomended.

This book is a must for understanding cocaine addiction!
When my husband entered rehab for cocaine addiction several weeks ago, I knew nothing about this drug, and why it had such a hold on him.After reading this book, I feel like I can understand where he is at, and how to deal with it.As someone said before it contains priceless information.I thank God I was able to find this book. I highly recommend it to addicts, family members, and professionals wanting to learn everything about cocaine addiction.

The most useful information I've come across on the topic!
As someone who has suffered with an addict for years, and who also plans to eventually practice in the field of addiction and recovery, I found this book to contain a wealth of priceless information.It provided incredible insight into the mind of the addict which will be useful to the addict himself, to family and friends, as well as to the treatment professional.A must read for anyone touched by the pain of addiction. ... Read more

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"Treatment Planning for Person-Centered Care puts the entire concept of individualized service planning into understandable language for all readers. The authors have captured the essence of active involvement of the persons served in the identification of needs (as well as strengths) and the development of a plan that will address those needs. This book is definitely in concert with and supports the CARF Behavioral Health standards, and would be an excellent resource to better understand how to move towards a person-centered assessment and planning process."
-Nikki Migas, M.P.A., Managing Director, Behavioral Health Customer Service Unit, CARF. the Rehabilitation Accreditation Commission

"This book encourages the field to turn a very important corner. It clarifies the goals and the processes that Mental Health and Alcohol/Drug systems presently need to focus on: joining with clients to help them enter/re-enter their communities and successfully exit the treatment systems. This book will help practitioners develop the necessary conceptual overview as well as individual components of service plans that will significantly enhance our clients' chances for real world success."
-Ed Diksa, California Institute for Mental Health

"The authors take what for many clinicians is irritating paperwork requirement, treatment planning, that is a diversion from their "real" work of therapy and turn it into a valuable tool. By placing the person, the client at the center of planning, Adams and Grieder take the reader step by step through a transforming process. They lead us to re-think whose goals we are trying to achieve in treatment. This book could precipitate many fruitful seminar discussions during clinical training."
-Eric Goplerud, Ph.D., George Washington University Medical Center

Treatment Planning for Person-Centered Care is a process-oriented book, guiding therapists in how to engage clients in building collaborative treatment plans that result in better outcomes. Suitable as both a reference tool and as a text for pre-degree training programs, the book addresses the entire process of treatment, from assessment through outcome evaluation. The book is relevant to providers in all settings, with a practical approach and case examples throughout.

About the authors:Neal Adams, MD, PhD is past president of the American College of Mental Health Administration and board certified in general psychiatry. Diane Grieder, M.Ed, has over 20 years experience consulting on improved mental health delivery systems. A prologue and epilogue are included by Dr. Wilma Townsend, a leading consumer advocate, consultant, and trainer in the field.

* Enhance the reader's understanding of the value and role of treatment planning in responding to the needs of adults, children and families with mental health and substance abuse treatment needs
* Build the skills necessary to provide quality, person-centered, culturally competent and recovery / resiliency-orientated care in a changing service delivery system
* Provide readers with sample documents, examples of how to write a plan, etc.
* Provide a text and educational tool for course work and training as well as a reference for established practioners
* Assist mental health and addictive disorders providers / programs in meeting external requirements, improve the quality of services and outcomes, and maintain optimum reimbursement ... Read more

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Great for Case Managers in Mental Health
This book is unbeatable when it comes to resources for understanding and creating good solid goals that match up with diagnosis for various services in the mental health field such as counseling, case management, community supports, CAP, and others.The book gives clear examples of broad and specific goals and interventions that would be effective with each.If you are making a treatment plan and want evidence based goals, or you are using person centered planning this book is for you.Everyone in my office bought one after we were introduced to it and it has really helped with getting approval from the state with our plans for community support services.I suggest trying to find it used, although the later editions have more information.I have purchased several for others and the prices have ranged from $15 to $40.

Excellent guide to tx planning
Very good road map to person centered planning.Many of us in the Mental Health field "talk the talk" and this book shows us how to "walk the walk".A must have for anybody working with people, not only in Mental Health or Substance Abuse but for the medical field as well. ... Read more

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Approximately 10 million people in the United States have a substance-related disorder and at least one other mental illness. Those who are dealing with a combination of these disorders are met with a powerful recipe for destruction, especially self-destruction. The good news is that there is help.

Drawing from an evidence-based program by internationally recognized pioneers in the integrated treatment of co-occurring disorders from the Dartmouth Medical School, Living with Co-occurring Addiction and Mental Health Disorders is the first handbook designed to inform and empower those with dual disorders, allowing each person to make decisions about his or her own treatment and recovery and sculpt a program that treats both disorders together. Key topics include:

• understanding the situation
• getting an assessment
• balancing the brain's chemistry
• finding the ideal treatment
• choosing and working with a therapist or counselor
• setting achievable goals and making positive changes within
• cognitive-behavioral therapy

Informative, thorough, and easy to follow, this book is designed to help the millions of people with dual disorders be their own best advocates for health and sanity, and build lives worth living.

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ENJOYABLE, EXCITING SEX IS POSSIBLE AFTER SEX ADDICTION

In the journey to sexual sobriety, many sex addicts find themselves wondering, 'How am I going to have a normal relationship?' or 'Will it be possible to repair my marriage now that I've confessed my destructive behavior?' and 'Will I ever have great sex again?'

As a sex, marriage, and family therapist, Alexandra Katehakis introduces a successful program for sufferers and their loved ones that will help them hone their erotic intelligence by making sense of the past, creating healthy habits in the present, and looking toward a more intimate relationship that nurtures honesty and closeness. With Katehakis's help, sex addicts can get in touch with their healthy sexual side—and embrace true intimacy and acceptance in themselves and in their mates.

- Features true stories of people coming to terms with their sexuality on the other side of sex addiction, as well as couples finding a new path to sexual trust and fulfillment

- Helps to build the four cornerstones of intimacy that are essential for healthy relationships

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What every couple in recovery should know
Where to start?The author has great insight into the workings of a couple in recovery from sex addiction.I say upfront that some of her statements and ideas will not hold with the views of SA but I think other S programs will agree more heartily.I am a member of SA and got the referal for this book from my CSAT.I am hoping my wife will read this book once she is ready and that it will make our love life more vital and alive.Where once I was afraid and ashamed I now look at our sex life as alive and wonderful.Please read this book so you see that there is hope for a happy sex life in recovery and that with work a couple can recover together. ... Read more

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Written at the end of 1999, when Chris McCully was hospitalised and treated for alcoholism for the third time, and during 2003, when he left England to begin a new career as a writer in the Netherlands, this is an honest, and at times painful, account of his ongoing recovery. Alcoholism is a lifelong condition from which there is no cure. Chris McCully does not offer warnings or exhortations, but gives witness to the banal, terrifying and commonplace nature of addiction, and to the slow process of recovery. Written from a position of unusual self-awareness and understanding, this book is an important and, hopeful, resource for mental health professionals. A personal account of debilitating mental and physical illness, this book should be read by all professionals working in the mental health field, and by anyone with an interest in alcoholism and recovery. ... Read more

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Honest struggle of an eloquent man
This book describes all aspects of a sensitive and intelligent man's struggle against alcoholism. Despite all the relapses in the past and possibly the future, the only sensible thing to do is to keep searching for a way to release the self of this constant preoccupation. This man is always questioning and evaluating, choosing his words carefully and always aware of the consequences his addiction has on the people around him and of course on his own life.
Very useful account for people struggling with addiction and everyone interested in them, out of professional or personal interest. ... Read more

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Inspiring true stories of recovery from the high-pressure world of business

They reached the pinnacle of their careers in spite of-or sometimes because of-substance abuse. They struggled with sobriety while striving for success, often risking their professional lives on the road to recovery. Now, with honesty, courage, and insight, they share their remarkable stories.

Michael Deaver, former White House deputy chief of staff, describes his recovery as “the single most powerful thing I've ever experienced”-even compared to meeting presidents and kings.

Andrew Zimmern, celebrity chef and TV personality, reveals how he applied the principles of recovery to his profession-“and that's when my career took off.”

Michael Glasser, CEO of Seven Jeans, worked hard and partied harder-until the threat of jail forced him to admit, “I needed help.”

Walter Yetnikoff, former president of CBS Records, talks about leaving the music industry to find meaningful work that enhanced-and was enhanced by--his recovery.

You'll also hear from James Abernathy of the Abernathy-MacGregor Group, bestselling author William Cope Moyers, and ten other business leaders who found newfound success through the healing power of second chances. ... Read more

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Turning Point
I had this book sent to my brother in jail. He came out inspired to give himself a "Second Chance."

A quick and nourishing read
Second Chances is not the Big Book, but it packs a powerful message. It arrived in my mail box last Saturday and I'm reading it for a second time. This little volume has so many great insights, that it's not possible to absorb them all in one reading. Whether you've been in recovery for many years, a newcomer, or you're a business professional looking for tips on how to achieve greater integrity and leadership in business this is the book for you.

Second Chances is going on my shelf right along side my Big Book, The Power of Now, and As a Man Thinketh.

Brutally honest look at addiction
Second Chance is a collection of 16 stories of people who were trapped in addictive behavior but made successful recoveries.For the most part, these people were highly successful, some even household names.But fame and fortune does not protect a person from becoming an addict.

A large number of these became addicted quite early in life, starting on the path as early as grade school or high school.The stories are brutally honest.It can be painful to read about how so many of them had so much, thought it would not, could not happen to them.It seems that one trait they all had in common was the ability to deny there was a problem.Many lost fortunes, suffered broken marriages and often they resorted to crimes to support their habits.

There are some very valuable lessons to learn from this book:

It can happen to anyone - it does not matter how well educated, how successful in business - it is much easier to fall into the trap than to get out.

Almost all cases the person denies they have a problem until they are very deep in trouble.And the very first step to recovery is admitting - honestly facing up to the problem.

There is a huge difference between drying out and being sober.Being sober is more a state of mind - it is actually wanting to be free of the addiction.

The 12 step program will work if someone really puts their mind to it, finds a sponsor and attends the meetings.It seems that those who fail to attend the meetings are much more likely to fall back into the bad habits.

This book will probably not serve to deter anyone on the road to destruction since one of the characteristics seems to be denial.For someone wanting to break the chains of addiction, it should serve as an inspiration.Others have probably fallen further but have successfully fully recovered.So these people are showing an example of how they actually recovered.

If you know someone struggling, give them a copy.When they are truly ready, it will serve as a great example of what is possible.

While the book does not talk about the growing numbers of people falling in the trap, my sense is that we need to do more prevention than cure.The book could serve as a warning for young folks so they get a real honest picture of what has happened to others and what could happen to them.

Tales of the Formerly High and Mighty
With prismatic insight and editing of interviews with prominent Americans in recovery, Stromberg and Merrill identify common influences in the backgrounds and expose the lessons learned by the valiant interviewees, in their own words.

The authors have enriched the genre that they created with their first two anthologies of famous people's demise and recovery from substance abuse and addiction. SECOND CHANCES is terser than its predecessors, but even more riveting. These 17 captivating stories easily evoke empathy especially among those interested in prevention and those working on recovery.

SECOND CHANCES should be in every school library, in the interset of preventing substance abuse, and everywhere people wanting recovery can absorb its message of encouragement and hope.

Second Chances is inspiring and very readable
Second Chances is inspiring and extremely readable. It is a real page turner and while one can quickly read it, the stories give the reader pause. The rollercoaster journeys of the executives' lives, the shocking depths and over-achieving heights are thought provoking to say the least. Having barely digested those, the astounding recoveries are actually far more dramatic. To read story after story of individuals reaching spiritual serenity and mental comfort after such travails gives the reader hope that those goals are truly within reach for everyone willing to do the work needed. The obvious gratitude, humility, joy in being of service and living in the moment of these recovered business people is absolutely inspiring. In fact, their sense of gratitude seems to be contagious, I am delighted to have had the opportunity to have read the book and hopefully learn from their both good and bad examples. I strongly recommend this book. ... Read more

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From Korn's legendary bassist comes a no-holds-barred look at the extreme highs and drug-and-booze-fueled lows of the biggest heavy metal band of our era.

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Three stars only cause I'm a Korn fan.....
First of all, why would Fieldy write this after former Korn pal'Head' wrote a much better believable book a few years ago? Maybe because he has a huge ego?!Not a very believable book, especially when I've seen a recent interview of him where he appears stoned and can't remember details of the book he wrote less than two years ago?
The reason I'm giving it three stars is I am a Korn fan, and the first half of the book was very interesting. What is even more interesting is his recollection of things versus 'Head's' Save me from Myself ' memoir which is much better written. My guess is that Fieldy is trying to prove something and has a huge ego....

Fieldys book
This is a great book, you should read it. Fieldy opens his heart with all of us. Just a great book I couldnt stop reading it

Got the Life
This product was sent within the estimated time given, the item is in mint condition and was sent in a padded envelope. Thanx sender!!

great read
What a great story of overcoming selfishness and bad habits through faith.I really enjoyed this book.

Got the life Fieldy
This guys amazing; i bought this book for my son and i heard him speak on the radio; terrfic attitude, so much to learn from him. He gets it. ... Read more

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Outlining the Addictive Voice Recognition Technique, a self-recovery program for alcoholism and drug addiction, this helpful guide presents an alternative to traditional substance abuse approaches and profiles the addiction ""Beast.""Tour. ... Read more

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Saved my life
First off, I'd like to address all of the nay-sayers who criticize Trimpey of bashing A.A.

Trimpey's use of language in order to make his arguments against the 12-step movement basically preaches to the choir. This book, I believe, was intended for folks that already agree with his disdain against A.A-whether they've been active participants in the program or not.

That said, Trimpey outlines a very aggressive and common-sense approach to addiction recovery that is based in personal responsibility, power of will to want to quit (for whatever reasons they may be) and rationalization through a process that recognizes and thereby, defeats the "addictive voice" in its many guises. He then gives several tactics for defeating the "addictive voice" for good, leading one toward permanent sobriety- A.K.A "The Big Plan"

Unlike the 12-step recovery movement (we'll call this A.A for short!), RR and AVRT focuses on addressing and permanently resolving the most immediate problem, substance addiction, before questions of family issues, emotional trauma or other past problems come into play- issues that A.A argues must be addressed first before recovery can even be considered. RR argues that the ONLY reason a person drinks beyond their common sense is because of how good it feels. So simple, yet-so true.

Moreover, while the 12-step movement argues that one must face up to and deal with the issues that he/she believes lead up to his addiction in the first place, RR argues that securing permanent sobriety, independent of the recovery movement first will naturally lead the individual to want to address any underlying issues afterward. I can certainly agree and relate to this, as all I wanted to do was DRINK after attending a few A.A meetings and doing my 4th and 5th step work!

For those who have tried the 12-step recovery method and failed, this book is for you. I relapsed numerous times in A.A. However, I've been sober ever since the day I picked up this book. What a relief to know that I am in control of, and responsible for my drinking habits after all, and not a victim to a hypothetical "disease."

Awesome
Very important subject; tools to assist in the recovery of substances are extremely valuable. New information is necessary to keep us all up to date.
Aaron Bryant: BSW, CSAC AuthorA Synchronous Memoir of Addiction and Recovery

Break free from the chains of the 12 Step Recovery Juggernaut
If you have an addiction and 12 step recovery is not working (or is not your cup of tea), try this!The disease concept of alcoholism is just that.....a concept; not medical fact.

Rational Recovery deals with Irrational Behavior
This book takes a different approach to addictive and irrational behavior. Unlike AA, this book forces you to realize that you DO have control over your actions and how you think. You do not have to give up and pretend that you can't control yourself and therefore are a helpless victim in need of "other worldly" help. Basically,this book is better suited for Atheists or Agnostics, who do not believe that a "higher power" is going to stop them from their destructive behavior. The author convinces you that you can stop your destructive behavior when you change your thoughts and attitude.You are empowered to change when you begin to care more about your life,family,friends, and health, than about drugging yourself everyday to temporarily feel better.The author brings up issues that interfere with your recovery and how to overcome them. I have given copies of this book to friends and family who have had their lives changed for the better. We highly recommend this book!

Rational Recovery
I am a substance abuse counselor and wanted to read this as some of my clients had mentioned it previously.I found the techniques of simply saying that one is done using is a bit out there.Recovery is not an event, it is a process, otherwise people would not have relapse down the road. ... Read more

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The face of addiction and alcoholism is a face that many have seen before -- it may be a celebrity, a colleague, or even a family member. And though the 12-step program by itself can often bring initial success, many addicts find themselves relapsing back into old ways and old patterns, or replacing one addiction with another. Author Darren Littlejohn has been there and back, and presents a complimentary guide for recovery to the traditional twelve-step program, out of his own struggles and successes through the study of Zen and Tibetan Buddhism.

Working with the traditional 12-Step philosophy, the author first shares his own life path, and how he came to find the spiritual solace that has greatly enhanced his life in recovery. Then, he details out how his work integrating Buddhism into the traditional twelve-step programs validates both aspects of the recovery process. While being careful not to present himself as a Tibetan lama or Zen master, the author shows how each step -- such as admitting there is a problem, seeking help, engaging in a thorough self-examination, making amends for harm done, and helping other drug addicts who want to recover -- fits into the Bodhisattva path. This integration makes Buddhism accessible for addicts, and the 12 Steps understandable for Buddhists who may otherwise be at a loss to help those in need.

The 12-Step Buddhist is designed to be a complimentary practice to the traditional 12-step journey, not a replacement. While traditional twelve-step programs help addicts become sober by removing the drug of choice and providing a spiritual path, they rarely delve deep into what causes people to suffer in the first place. The integration of Buddhism with the traditional process provides the wisdom and meditations that can help addicts truly find a deep, spiritual liberation from all causes and conditions of suffering -- for good. ... Read more

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A Journey of Hope
A book that takes any addict and alcoholic on a journey of hope, health, hopefulness, and healing from a Buddhist perspective.For anyone looking to understandthe 12 steps in an entirely different Zen way, this book compliments any recovery program.The meditations in each chapter are nothing short of enlightening.The Law of Sobriety: Attracting Positive Energy for a Powerful Recovery

A good start
I will start out by saying that its after 2am so any grammer errors are just going to have to be ok... This book is a good place for someone interested in buddhism who is "in the program" my sensei, and a guy who I have been reading up on lately the dalai lama describe in buddhism an almost agnostic angle... As it was described to me Buddhism does not give dharma talks on a creator God because they dont know, and I love that.. k. tanaka says when asked what do you as buddhist believe happens when you die?? and his answer was "THATS A GOOD QUESTION DONT WORRY ABOUT IT"perfect one day at a time answer... mr. littlejohns book is to date my absolutely favorite buddhism meets 12steps book on the market and i'll tell you why... this book integrates already accepted 12step beliefs with tibetan and tantric buddhism.. i would have loved to see some shin buddhism in the book as I have found that shin buddhism is almost identical to a "meeting" but none the less he writes as though he is speaking directly to you is clear and to the point... the most beneficial qualities in my opinion are the meditations he describes in the book... I actually reccomend this book to people that I know so i definitly would recomend it to those that i'll never have to meet ;-)

12 Steps Plus = Sage Advice
I am in recovery and picked up The 12 Step Buddhist thinking it looked interesting and different from most of the recovery literature I come across.I find Darren's perspective and advice honest and helpful.Have been in AA three years and I so identify with his conclusion that he needed more than just a 12 Step Program and the 12 Step Buddhist lays out so clearly the additional things he does to promote his own recovery. I need more too.I need therapy, medication and above all more in the way of a spiritual practice.And the 12 Step Buddhist is so inspiring that I have searched and actually found a local Buddhist sangha to investigate as a possibility to find that spiritual something I am looking for.I heartily recommend the 12 Step Buddhist to anyone on the recovery path (or who needs/wants to be) and to everyone else too.There's alot of wisdom shared.

Practical wisdom for the addict
The 12 Step-Buddhist is a thoughtful and practical reflection on applying meditation to the 12 Steps.In fact, this book passes my book "diving" test for wisdom ...when I'm in need of divine wisdom, I pick up a book,, open to a random page and read where my finger falls.Everytime I've picked up the 12-Step Buddhist, I hear what I need to hear in the moment.For whatever reason, Littlejohn's writing has both the density and the intention that help me in moments of question.It has become a fixture in my recovery library.

A Wonderful Guide for Integrated Recovery
I read this book as an AA twelve-stepper just entering a Tibetan Buddhist community. This book was just what I needed to continue my recovery in an integrated way. I agree with author Littlejohn that the 12-step program is absolutely necessary for recovery, but may not be sufficient for everyone. This was true for me, as it was my "spiritual awakening" in early step work and interest in meditation that directed me towards Buddhism.

The 12-Step Buddhist clearly outlines how addicts can integrate Buddhist principles and practices into their recovery program. As addicts, we are very familiar with both attachment and suffering. Littlejohn explains how various Buddhist exercises address both of these conditions, allowing us to accept our powerlessness (i.e. the natural samsaric state of suffering) and then take measures (willingness and step work) to liberate ourselves from attachment (addiction). At least this is how I used this book to integrate my Buddhist practice and 12-step program.

Before I read this guide to enhanced recovery, I did not know how I could weave the fairly existential pillars of Buddhism into my very proactive step work program. These pages, however, greatly changed my perspective on recovery by showing different ways to go about living with addiction. The 12-Step Buddhist elucidates how meditation, self-examination, and compassion are some of the main skills one can get from Buddhist practice, and Littlejohn shows how these themes directly lend themselves to improved recovery and step work (such as being aware of our powerlessness over alcohol/addiction, taking moral inventories, and having service commitments).

I was/still am an addict looking for enhanced recovery, and I found just that in The 12-Step Buddhist. Littlejohn provides practices that are just suggestions, like the 12-steps; and if you are an addict looking for a more integrated, effective and powerful approach to AA step work and recovery, I greatly recommend this book and its suggestions.
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At last, a book that defines a new language for treating substance abuse in an increasingly culturally diverse population. Until now, therapists, counselors, and teachers who treat addiction within the context of the whole family have had to make do with outdated one-size-fits-all theories and treatment programs.

Bridges to Recovery is the first book to bring together experts from three major fields within psychotherapy -- family therapy, addiction counseling and multicultural treatment -- to provide a practical and flexible framework for working with families within their individual cultural contexts. Drawing upon case studies, clinical anecdotes and proven treatment methods, Bridges to Recovery provides practitioners with a unique insight into the individual cultural nuances that make addiction recovery a very personal journey.

Jo-Ann Krestan, co-author of the classic book The Responsibility Trap: A Blueprint for Treating the Alcoholic Family, and her contributors integrate the latest ideas and research to offer a foundation for addiction treatment that brings to the forefront the cultural thinking that affects alcohol and drug use/abuse among Native Americans, Jewish Americans, African Americans, West Indians, Asian Americans, Mexican Americans, Puerto Ricans and groups of European origin. This book will be an invaluable asset to teachers and students in clinical social work, psychology and substance abuse counseling programs, setting the standard for education and treatment at the beginning of the 21st century. ... Read more

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Good
This book is in good shape at a low cost. It was shipped promptly and I received it in good time.

Bridges to Recovery
I think this book is a must read for anyone working in the substance abuse field! I first thought it was about psychiatric residential alternatives because I know of a program called Bridges to Recovery here is their website http://www.bridgestorecovery.com . Anyways the importance of understanding working with minorities and also working with addicts and alcoholics is vital to substance abuse counseling! Family psychotherapy is an important part of any successful treatment. Thanks for an awesome book!!!!

excellent on Native culture
The section from the Native counselor which includes the cultural belief systems of Natives is the best I have come across in the literature. Their version of the 12 Steps is included also. This extensive section is worthe the price of the book!
Katherine van Wormer,co-author of Addiction Treatment

Begin your healing journey
"Bridges to Recovery" shows the greatness of diversity to enrich our recovery with other people's ideas. It embodies something new for each of us to learn about the spiritual aspects of personal growth and find comfort in the healing process.I found it full of information for newcomers to sobriety as well as for old-timers like myself. Where else could you find reflected the brillance of God as you understand him in its impetus to spiritual growth? This book urges you to begin your healing journey and creates and open atmosphere that just might save your life.

Bridges to Recovery: Outstanding Resource
Practical, rich in clinical wisdom, chock full of fascinating case illustrations, Bridges to Recovery is a comprehensive and enlightening book-- an appropriate book to lead our addictions work into the twenty-firstcentury. It transforms our understanding of addiction and offers us aclinical and theoretical head start for the complex cultural tasks ahead ofus. This is the first book in our clinical literature to comprehensivelyaddress addiction treatment from a perspective of multicultural competence.It should be required reading for all those in the health care field whodeal with substance abuse. Every physician, psychologist, social worker,nurse and counselor should become familiar with the ideas in thisbook.

The editor, Jo-Ann Krestan, one of the senior clinicians andthinkers in the family therapy field, and a seminal teacher and clinicianon issues of addiction, has brought together a remarkable and diverse groupof clinicians who have front line experience and knowledge of the strugglesof those suffering from addiction. They have done a superb job ofsummarizing the research and articulating their own and their group'scultural wisdom for intervention. The chapters take account of each group'scultural and political history and the impact of oppression andmarginalization within the dominant culture in the United States.

MonicaMcGoldrick, Director, The Multicultural Family Institute, Highland Park,N.J.(www.MulticulturalFamily.org), whose books include Ethnicity and FamilyTherapy, Revisioning Family Therapy: Race, Culture and Gender in ClinicalPractice, The Expanded Family Life Cycle and Genograms ... Read more

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Barb Rogers' book begins with the tragic death of her teenage son, Jon, and delves into the horror that was her life to that point. Due to a home life fraught with substance and emotional abuse, Barb found herself bottomed out more than once, and homeless along the way.

"When asked in early recovery if I knew any prayers, the one I could think of was the child's nighttime prayer, 'Now I lay me down to sleep.'As I thought of it, I recalled the long nights when I simply wanted to go to sleep and never wake up."

Barb learned most of her life lessons through pain, tragedy, and addiction. This is not a glamorous book, it is real and it is raw. It is not about survival of the fittest, but the weak, the hopeless, the helpless, the truly addicted, not only to substances, but to drama, anger, excuses, and justifications.

She describes how she got to her lowest point, just what it was, and how and why she finally reached out to a 12-step program for help. She shows the reader what it's really like to survive, to stay clean and sober, and find a way to the other side.Recovery was one of the most difficult things she ever did, but "worth every effort I put out."

Barb Rogers would be the first to tell you she's not special--she's led a hard life, and she tells her story well and with humor--readers--addicts or not, but especially addicts--are going to find the kind of gritty inspiration, that if Barb can do it so can they, that will inspire life changes. ... Read more

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If I Die Before I Wake: A Memoir of Drinking and Recovery
Barb Rogers proves, that no matter what obstacles you face, you can get sober. Few people have been through the abuse, loss, and pain that she has been through. While I did feel my heart breaking many times as I read her story, she doesn't portray herself as a victim.She writes with such honesty, not only with her readers, but with herself. Barb successfully lays out her progress through AA, detailing the internal struggles that happen during recovery. This is an important book for anybody working toward sobriety. Barb shows us that life can turn around, that we can learn from the past and move forward, and that there is life after addiction! Way to go Barb!

Nice
This is a very important topic substance abuse concerns permeate all facets of our society. Hearing the courageous stories of people's struggle with addiction helps to bring strength to all of us.
Aaron Bryant: BSW,CSACAuthor A Synchronous Memoir of Addiction and Recovery

Harrowing.
No one should have to suffer this much. After the death of her teenage son (due indirectly to his own substance abuse), Barb Rogers hits her own bottom. Without much of a will to live, she somehow manages to pull herself back from the brink of total destruction.

This memoir traces her downward spiral, and her climb back to the land of the living, inch by inch. With the help of AA and a few people whom she counts on in good times and bad, Rogers learns that there can be happiness on the other side of despair.

Searing tale of eventual recovery
I am an alcohol and drug counselor. I have been in this profession for years. I am always excited to read a new book about someone's recovery from alcohol and drugs.This is one of those great books that makes you stop and think about your own life.Barb R., the author; has been through a lot.Neglect, molestation, an unwanted pregnancy, numberous marriages, and deaths throughout her life.This is the story of her determination to become sober.Sober now for 20 + years, this story is inspirational to hear, and a must read for any woman considering recovery from alcohol and drugs.

As I was reading this book, I was consistently reminded of another memoir I have recently read; "Potato chips for breakfast.""Potato chips" deals more with severe family dysfunction that leads to abuse and dependence; while "If I die before I wake" deals more with the positives of recovery.Barb R. deals more with the positive support through AA she has received since deciding to take the first steps to recovery more so than the author of "Potato chips," who just discusses her recovery from alcohol or other drugs in the last chapter of the book (and spends more time discussing the horrors of her home life that led to her using in the first place).

My only fault with the book is that Barb jumps around in time a great deal.At the beginning of the book, she has suffered a signifigant loss that led to a very real relapse.Then the book jumps back in time to her childhood and teenage years, in which she was pregnant and abandoned by her new husband just after they were married.Then the book jumps back to the signifigant loss, and eventually meeting of someone who helps her get into AA and recover.I had a hard time with all the jumps back and forth in time, and I think the story would have been more effective if told in a more straightforward manner. If I could change something about this book, this is what I would change.

Barb owns up to her addiction, and the ways she manipulated others around her when she was addicted.As I mentioned before she has suffered signifigant losses (I don't want to ruin the story so I don't want to tell too much to the reader) and she admits that she enjoyed the attention initially the losses provoked in others.The author also owns up to the fact that she left a lot to be desired as a parent to her son Jon.Many people, in recovery for years that I know, still cannot see themselves as a bad parent when they were using drugs and alcohol like Barb can.For this I commend her.

I did my best to ignore it (the problem)
A unreverberant and honest, beautifully written book that takes you inside the world of chronic drunkenness, and tells you how to get out of the bottle. Admirable ... Read more

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"A sophisticated, insightful, well-documented view of the philosophy and practice that are at the heart of the LifeRing approach. This book offers a perspective on recovery that can motivate change in clinicians and researchers as well as among individuals struggling to find their sober selves."
—Carlo DiClemente, Ph.D., professor and chair, Department of Psychology, University of Maryland, Baltimore, and author, Addiction and Change

"With impressive analytical clarity and therapeutic generosity, Nicolaus presents a well-argued brief for understanding the complexities of addiction treatment and accepting the full range of diverse paths to recovery. . . . [Anyone] wanting insight and balance on a vitally important public health issue will appreciate the author's lively and respectful presentation."
—Judith Herman, M.D., author, Trauma and Recovery

"In the words of our president, 'it's time for a change,' and nowhere is this more evident than in the field of addiction treatment. Nicolaus has written a wonderful book that presents LifeRing, a new model for self-help groups. A model based on empathy, scientific evidence, and giving people the power to make their own choices about treatment options. Indeed, change has come."
—Joseph R. Volpicelli, M.D., Ph.D., executive director, Institute of Addiction Medicine, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and coauthor, Recovery Options: The Complete Guide

"Powerful, engaging, and scientific. Marty Nicolaus shows that the sober self emerges by focusing on a person's strength, intelligence, supportive relationships, and the ability to ask, 'what works?'"
—Charlotte Sophia Kasl, author, Many Roads, One Journey: Moving Beyond the 12 Steps

"Finally, a respectful approach to persons caught in addiction. Nicolaus has given us another option in the heroic battle people fight to regain the wholeness that addiction compromises."
—The Rev. Linda Mercadante, Ph.D., Straker Professor of Historical Theology, The Methodist Theological School in Ohio, and author, Victims and Sinners ... Read more

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Insightful
I found Empowering Your Sober Self an insightful look into alcoholism. Having primarily been familiar with the 12 Step model for recovery, this book serves to educate those who do not wish to follow the 12 Step Program's more religious path. I found the information on genetics interesting. The book doesn't "AA bash", like other alternative programs seem to, but offers up honest criticisms that make sense for those not religiously inclined. I did think a few of the suggestions for getting sober initially, a bit trite and superficial, however, over all I would recommend this book to those with established sobriety, seeking a more broad-minded path to follow.

Of Exceptional Importance
Empowering Your Sober Self is a book whose importance is almost impossible to overestimate. The author has two basic goals. The first is to point out the many weaknesses of the 12-step approach to alcohol/drug addiction recovery. He does this several ways. He discusses the religious background of the originator of AA. Because Bill W. was able to overcome his addiction to alcohol by an experience of religious conversion (for 80 years institutionalized in AA/NA twelve step programs), a one size fits all is the hallmark of the vast majority of alcohol/drug treatment inpatient and outpatient programs. The author points out statistics and anecdotal reports that no more than 5% of patients respond to the 12 step approach. Anyone who has been in a 12 step program well knows the rigidity of this approach.
Second, Nicolaus puts forward a new much more flexible approach to maintaining sobriety. Group support for sobriety is the hallmark of this new approach (Called LifeRing). Importantly there is a relapse prevention/sobriety maintainance manual developed by LifeRing called Recovery by Choice: Living and Enjoying Life Free of Alcohol and DrugsWorkbook.See lifering.or for more information on this extremely important new approach to the treatment of alcohol/drug addiction. ... Read more

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About This Addiction and Recovery Book:

This book is for anyone suffering from addiction as well as family and friends of someone who is suffering from addiction,and would like more information and facts about addiction and recovery.

What's Inside?:

Introduction Dealing with Addiction
Understand Addictions
Understanding Addiction
Defining Alcoholism
Defining Drug Addiction
Defining Porn and Internet Addiction
Defining Gambling Addiction
Believe that Recovery is Possible
Signs of Addiction
Addictions Don’t Start Overnight
Understand the Stages of Recovery
Tell Others You Want to Quit
Ask Family and Friends to be There for You
Internalizing those External Elements
Understanding Emotions
The “Internal” Stage of Addiction
The “Life Style Change” Stage of Addiction
The “Life Breakdown” Stage of Addiction
Recovery Takes Time
Alcohol Addiction – Saying “No” to Invitations
The Negative Role of Anxiety and Depression
Have a Plan
The Factor of Compulsion and Obsession
Treatment is a Lifelong Commitment
Detox is Compulsory
Successful Detox
Detox takes Time
Using Rapid Detox
The Procedure of Rapid Detox
Alcohol Detox
Alcohol Detox and Physical Symptoms
The Process of Alcohol Detox
Liver Detox Explained
Liver Detox of Alcohol Addiction
Detox Centers
Detox Centers for Substance Abuse
Detox Center Procedures
Detox Programs
Choosing a Detox Program
Detox for Health
Addiction to Oxycontin and Detox
Oxycontin Detox Procedures
Where to find Oxycontin Detox
Vicodin Addiction
Vicodin Detox
What to Expect from Vicodin Detox
Alexander Technique
Finding Balance
Breathing Techniques
Finding Personal Power
Art for Therapy
Baby Steps to Fitness
Exercise – Anything Goes
The Importance of Walking for Addiction Recovery
The Advantages of Fitness
The Importance of Nutrition
Drink Plenty of Water
Alternative Health
Acupuncture
Health and Mind Techniques for Addiction
Meditation and Addiction Recovery
Relaxation and Addiction Recovery
Reflexology and Addiction Recovery
Yoga and Addiction Recovery
Fitness
Starting a Fitness Program
The Importance of Diet and Exercise
Using Herbs during Recovery
Quit Smoking
Eating Addictions - Recognize an Eating Addiction
Eating Addictions - Get Professional Help for Eating Disorders
Dealing with Denial
Night Time Stretching
The Value of Internal Cues
Controlling your Internal Cues
Management of Internal Cues
Personal Awareness
Understanding your Emotional State
The Dangers of Environmental Stimulus
Environmental stimulus internal cues reaction action.
External Events as Stimulus to Addiction
Addiction and Response
Letting External Cues Affect your Thinking
The Addict and Decision Making
The Power of using Affirmations
Why the Addict needs Personal Power
Attitudes and Beliefs
Successful Treatment Factors
Give yourself Rewards
Recovery for Yourself
Support System
Addiction is a Compulsive Behavior
Accept Responsibility for your Addiction
Learn your Triggers
Learn to Accept your Feelings
Commitment
Alcoholism - Find New Activities
Alcoholism – Don’t Make Excuses
Focus on Self-Improvement
Adequate Treatment Time
Involuntary Treatment
Teens and Drugs
Facts about Teen Addiction

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Get all the tips you can on this and save your life from addiction
Get all the tips you can on this and save your life from addiction.Take the tips and save your life,just do it, or save someone else's life before it's tool late.

Must Read for Anyone faced with or know some one fighting addiction
Must Read for Anyone faced with or know some one fighting addiction.If you are someone you know is fighting addiction, alcoholism, drug addiction, it is wise to read everything you can about it.You'll find there are several opinions on the subject,This addiction book will give you sound advice and principles on how to deal and recover from addiction... must read...

Overcoming addiction made easier
Coping with an addiction is very difficult not only for the person experiencing it, but also for the people around them. Not understanding the struggles my close friend was going through, I purchased this book and actually got plenty of tips on how to deal with my friend's addiction, and noticing my own. Recovery is a long process that everyone around the addict needs to be included in and informed on so I highly recommend this book for anyone trying to cope with any kind of addiction problems. ... Read more

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Older version
Purchased this book and one I thought was the text to go along with workbook.Turns out, this one is just the older version, there is no separate workbook. Wish I would have known. Am sending it back, or will look to sell to used book store.

Must Have
This is the book you must read if you are facing this addiction or know someone who is. Sexual addiction is no joke, it ruins many lives. This book will help in understanding what is happening to the addict.

Very satisfied
This book is informative and comprehensive.I especially appreciated the various tools given to increase awareness.

Help for sexual addiction
It is becoming increasingly important for counsellors and psychotherapists to educate themselves about the issue of Sexual Addiction, which can be defined as out-of-control and damaging sexual behaviour in relation to Internet sex, prostitution, telephone sex, multiple affairs etc. Modern society provides a huge range of options for artificially enhanced, relatively impersonal sexual stimulation, and in our counselling practices we are more frequently meeting clients who may be addicted in some of these areas.

I recommend this new 2nd edition of Carnes' book as an introduction to the subject. Carnes has been the field leader in Sexual Addiction counselling since publishing "Out of the Shadows" in 1983, and the present book accessibly summarises his thinking about the problem, along with approaches for helping those who may be struggling with it. The main addition since the 1st edition is a more detailed exploration of the growing phenomenon of Cybersex (Internet sex) addiction.

Having been involved in the development of addiction treatment/recovery in the USA for many years, Carnes' thinking is a blend of influences taken from 12-Step programmes such as Alcoholics Anonymous and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous, from Cognitive-Behavioural techniques such as written inventories and challenging core beliefs, and from relevant neurobiological findings. He has a deep understanding of the nature of Addictive Behaviours over and above the familiar example of Chemical Dependency, and his key contribution to the field may be his description of the Sexual Addiction Cycle, where Preoccupation leads to Ritualisation, which leads to addictive Acting Out behaviours; the Pain arising from this acting out can then be numbed by further Preoccupation, which closes the self-perpetuating cycle.

Carnes is also known for his Tasks approach to recovery. In this book he focuses on what he sees as the first 7 recovery tasks:

1. Breaking through denial
2. Understanding addiction
3. Surrendering to the process
4. Limiting damage
5. Establishing sobriety
6. Ensuring physical integrity
7. Participating in a culture of support

In earlier books he included Reducing Shame, which he now leaves until the second phase of recovery. My own experience, and those of many other therapists working with the Centre for Sexual Addictions, is that it is important to address the issue of shame and self-hatred at an early stage. Clients may see themselves and their sexuality in a very negative light, perhaps partly due to the negativity towards sexuality which has been a part of Irish culture, and may be in danger of trying to force themselves into the opposite extreme of complete avoidance and denial of sexuality (Carnes is alert to this danger, calling it Sexual Anorexia, and he has written an important book on the subject, entitled "Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hatred").


Perhaps the main strength of this book is that it can be useful to both therapist and client alike, and while I have never worked through the whole book with any client, we can together make productive use of some of the handouts/exercises/inventories (for instance, the Consequences Inventory).


Eoin Stephens is Director of Education & Training at PCI College, and at the Centre for Sexual Addictions (www.csa-addictions.ie), a division of the Institute for Behavioural & Mental Health (www.ibmh.info).

Amazing
This author (Patrick Carnes) is the most knowledgable person on the topic of Sexual Addiction.This book is good for people who like to have a workbook.There are a lot of quizzes and journaling places, so you can really get to the bottom of your problems.If you are not going to want to journal or take quizzes in the book, I would reccommend some of his other books.I hear great things about his original "facing the shadow" book.I kind of wish I had bought that one actually. ... Read more

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Addiction and recovery: Your questions answered. How to recover from addiction/ dependencies, including help for families. By the CEO of the Addiction Recovery Foundation and editor of Addiction Today journal. ... Read more