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Explore a multidimensional, bio-psychological approach to dealing with this problem and strengthening your sexual relationship. Explode the myths of male sexual performance and analyze male sexual desire. Learn about the different types of premature ejaculation and use assessment exercises to find out which you suffer from. Then, follow one of the structured, symptom-specific treatment strategies based on psychological, relational, and physiological techniques. Find out ways to prevent relapse. Enhance and improve your overall sexual relationship. Designed as a resource for couples, this book is powerful tool for creating support and positive change in your relationship. ... Read more

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Applicability depends on who the reader is
This is one of the most thorough books on premature ejaculation written for the general audience. It really covers all the bases, even to the point giving suggestions on how to bring up the topic with a doctor, or choosing a therapist. The focus lies on the psychological aspects of premature ejaculation, and how to work with the issue as a couple. Thus, it discusses how to talk about sex in a relationship, approaching conflicts, expressing emotions, relaxation, body image etc.

If you are serious about developing your relationship, and you, or your partner, is suffering from premature ejaculation then this a without a doubt a 5 star book. However, I do think it is less applicable for for those who do not want involve a partner. Or not willing to put in the effort and work it takes to apply the psychological approaches and tecqhniques that are the backbone of this book. For that category of readers I would give it 4 stars.

Non-Sponsored Review of Coping With Premature Ejaculation
Watch Video Here: http://www.amazon.com/review/R2V4EW446IN1R5 This video review covers a more detailed look at the contents, as well as my perceptions of the strengths and weaknesses of the book, who it is relevant to, and whether I think you should get it. My review is based on several years of research in this field and I encourage you to watch it as well as read other comments in the review section.

Very Informative Book on Premature Ejaculation
As a sex therapist in Orange County, I am always looking for great books to recommend to my clients to help them with the problems they bring to my office.This is the book I always suggest when a man and / or his partner complain of premature ejaculation.While the pharmaceutical companies would have you believe you can just treat the symptom, the problem is much more complex and there is so much (great stuff) to learn.Definitely a good book.

Great book about PE
The most amazing thing about this book is it's approach to the matter of premature ejaculation. It gives you an answer for all your questions. It means that you'll get to know which type of PE you have and how you have obtained it. Then it gives you the procedure how to cure it. This is particulary good in the way that you know which circumstences caused your PE, which aspects of your life you have to concentrate on and which to change. When you know these facts you'll get more comfortable and self-confident because it gives you the impression that PE is something that is cureable.

I have already read several books on this matter. Like the book by Barbara Keesling, then the 'Multi-Orgasmic Man', 'Multi-orgasmic couple', books by Margot Anand and her DVD, 'Tantra' by Andre Lysebeth, 'Tantra & Tao' by Gilly Smith, 'A Chakra & Kundalini Workbook' by Jonn Mummford and another book about Kundalini which I don't remember the author's name. These Tantra books are nice and they bring something new to your thinking about sex and relationship, but the techniques won't help unless you believe absolutely in energy and it's flow. For some it's not so easy to imagine.

Another thing is the use of the Pubococcygeal Muscle described in almost all of these books including this one. In the Tantric books you are instructed how it is important to squeeze it before the point of no return and how to imagine the flow of the energy and the importance of pumping it to your head and who knows where else. 'Coping with Premature Ejaculation' teaches you how to relax it and your whole body(however, this depends on the type of PE you have) which is far more important because eventually you'll get relaxed during intercourse being completely aware of your feelings and your partner what you would not achieve with the Tantric books (at least, I wasn't able to) because you would be distracted by your imagination.

I can only recommend you this books. It works for me, although I haven't finished reading it, and as for now I do the individual exercises, but I have already noticed progress and that just after few weeks of reading. I haven't noticed such change even after I have completely read the Tantric books mentioned above.

This is a wonderful book!
I am a sex therapist and sex educator, teaching at a large graduate school in the midwest. I use this book as a required text in my 'Treatment Strategies for Sexual Dysfunction' class. It is not only an excellent self-help book, it teaches clinicians how to think about and treat sexual difficulties.Barry McCarthy and Michael Metz are simply the best at what they do.I recommend this book to clients, students, and colleagues.
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Discusses male sexual response and the cause of its disorders, and provides advice on leading a more normal sex life. ... Read more

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Well written with helpful information for men and couples
How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation is a well regarded book in the area of sex education and therapy (I work as a sex educator). Helen Singer Kaplan, its author, is a famous sex therapist who wrote other important books and articles about sexuality though this is one of the writings she is most well known for.

Although more is known about premature ejaculation than when she first wrote this book, it remains a good choice for men because the old standards about confidence, relaxation, communicating with a partner and masturbation techniques to learn to delay ejaculation all hold true.I also like the book Coping With Premature Ejaculation which highlights some of the newer information about premature ejaculation including medications and research about why men develop PE in the first place but this book by Dr. Kaplan continues to hold a lot of promise for many single men and couples. It is well written and has important information.

I also think She Comes First by Ian Kerner has information on good techniques that at least one man with PE learned in order to please his partner while he worked out his own PE issues (those techniques are cunnilingus techniques).

Highly recommended.

Not Bad
is important to have a partner in order to have control over the premature eyaculation and the book is not that clear it should be more simple, but it as some points that I really like it I'll give it 80/100

Actionable Manual
In the past, doctors attempted to define Premature Ejaculation (PE) in terms of how quickly the patient ejaculates. Some treatment centers believed that if a man lasted less than one minute after vaginal entry he was premature. Other groups used one and a half minutes or two minutes as their criterion. Instead of the natural enjoy, men with this type of PE have to struggle to hold back, and can only do so with tremendous effort and with a great deal of tension, which takes all the pleasure out of the act for themselves and also spoils it for their partners. In 1980s, Helen Singer Kaplan has proposed a new definition of PE, which has been adopted by the American Psychiatric Association and by the World Health Organization. According to the new diagnostic guidelines, the essential feature of PE is that the man lacks adequate voluntary ejaculatory control with the result that the climaxes involuntarily before he wishes to.

The author affirms that PE can be cured, so today over 90 percent of cased can be cured with an average of 14 weeks of treatment. The author analyzes what causes PE, scrutinizes physical and psychological causes of PE, and present the new treatment of PE split into steps with illustrated exercises and advises for both partners. The illustrations are taken from the other author's book: "The Illustrated Manual Of Sex Therapy". I can recommend it in addition to this book, as well as the author's title "The Sexual Desire Disorders - Dysfunctional Regulation of Sexual Motivation".

Very high level information
The information in the book is bit old and most of the information provided (such as how to over come PE...) can be found online.I would recommend "Coping With Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner & Have Great Sex" since that book had much more information on PE

Working so far!!!
I hate to read, but this was a quick and very helpful read. The information was useful and the techniques are working very well after a few weeks of practice. This was recommended by my doctor and I'll pass that recommendation along. Good luck. ... Read more

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By using the techniques presented in this concise booklet you will:1. last longer and increase your staying power (take control over your sex life)2. avoid embarrassment (greater sex for you and your partner)3. learn what methods can be applied that same night (and which need more time)4. develop your own strategy to overcome PE that suits your sexual life style best (and learn why "PE" is really a group of different sexual problems that can be solved in different ways) 5. discover which methods are scientifically proven effective (and which are not)6. rely on the expertise of a professional Swedish Psychologist and Sexologist (no mumbo-jumbo sales pitch here!)This is groundbreaking program for self-treating premature ejaculation is based on a careful review of professional methods as well as relevant books and scientific articles on the known facts about treatment for this problem. ... Read more

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Forget about Madame Palm and her five daughters
Even though I am not a man, well not last time I checked anyway, I was excited to read Sexual Health Secrets for Men, because I have written a couple of articles for Hubpages on Common mistakes made by men during sex; as well as Common mistakes made by women during sex.I thought I'd get some background on how it all works for a man.
I was surprised to read that masturbation is bad for men, but I have to say, the justification made a lot of sense.So, cut Madame Palm and her five daughters out of your life if you are a man!
The exercises, diet and massages made a lot of sense as well.A good subtitle would be 'Get Fit for Fun.'
I think this book would make an ideal gift for a man who needs to get serious about sex.It was well-written and had no techno-jargon and doctor-speak that a simpleton lkike me would not be able to understand.It even seems to give substance to my theory that men with big paunches and beer bellies have small willies.

A Helpful Boost
As a woman there is certainly a limit to how much I can attest to the workings of this book but my partner was pleased and impressed by it.

It was well written, easily explained and didn't make the reader feel talked down to. I was very impressed with the clinical tone but the ease of the wording.

For guys, I'd say check this out and for the ladies...pick it up for the guys. ... Read more

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Lasting Longer was written by Dr. Sy Silverberg. an MD/Certified Sex Therapist with 40 years experience. It was first published in 1978. Since then it has been distributed only to professionals who have used it to help thousands of men learn how to control ejaculation. It was revised in 2010 and rewritten so that any man can understand it without the support of a therapist. This was done in part to combat the professed online cures being offered to men at exorbitant prices. For the most part these solutions are useless and in some cases even harmful. Time has proven my belief that P.E. is so prevalent simply because young men have never been taught how to control ejaculation, he explains. Dr. Silverberg equates the learning process to learning bladder control. Lasting Longer leads men step-by-step through a series of exercises designed to teach them how to recognize the signals from their bodies that indicate they are approaching the point of no return . They, then learn how to control the reflex that triggers ejaculation. Exactly the same way they learned to control the reflex that triggers urination. He believes that any man who was toilet-trained can learn ejaculatory control. Lasting Longer stands out from other publications on the topic in that it does not present page after page of historical data, statistics, demographics, scientific jargon or entertaining clinical examples. Instead it uses clear and concise language to outline only the steps necessary to correct the problem. In addition it offers concrete suggestions for developing a satisfying long-term sexual relationship with a partner of either gender. Excerpts may be viewed at the Canadian .ca website for Lasting Longer. Review
According to Dr. Stacy L. Elliott, MD, the medical director at Vancouver Hospital's BC Center for Sexual Medicine, Lasting Longer has been instrumental in sexual education and treating sexual dysfunction for many years. She says: He was before his time in his thinking and experience has proven him to be right. We have used Dr. Silverberg's Lasting Longer faithfully for the twenty-five years of our history. His newer version is even easier to understand, has more directed exercises, and is even more positive and encouraging than his original version. We are very grateful for his assistance all these years. Dr. Elliott is also a professor at the UBC Department of Psychiatry's Division of Sexual Medicine. She is a well-recognized expert in the field of male sexual dysfunction and has been the Chair of the Canadian Male Sexual Health Council. --Personal communication ... Read more

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Instructions for men and couple on dealing with concerns about rapid ejaculation during those most intimate encounters. The guide is written by a retired Marital & Sex Therapist and is based on his 35+ years of experience in that clinical specialty. The book is short, but specific and address not only gaining control, but also on effective communication, female satisfaction and a fail-safe strategy for a lifetime of sensual sexuality. ... Read more

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Excellent book and advice
Apparently I'm the first person to review this important book. I'm a little surprised about this, since Dr. Birch has excellent credentials and this is such a potentially important problem in a couple's sex life.

Anyway, what I was going to say was that I was interested in this book because I thought it might help me with my particular problem, but since I'm somewhat dyslexic, I misread the title as the "Management of Premature Masturbation," not premature ejaculation. That doesn't seem to be my problem. However, if I ever do get PE, I'm sure this book will be a big help. In fact, I sort of hope I do get it because it might save me some time, since I seem to have the exact opposite problem, which can be very time-consuming when it comes to sex.

Well, perhaps things aren't all bad. I've been told (assuming I decide to change careers some day), that my particular problem is actually quite useful and an advantage for professional gigolos. ... Read more

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Recently this book was reviewed by Louanne Cole Weston, Ph.D., nationally renowned sex therapist and resident sex expert at WebMD, who made the following observations: "This book is a breakthrough. It pulls together dozens of facts that no sex researcher has ever connected before. Unlike many therapies, this approach shows you how to treat the symptom -- ejaculating before you want to -- without making huge changes in your personality. "New Hope for an Old Problem" deals with what causes the point of ejaculatory inevitability (that point of no return) and shows you how to stop it. It's the most "partner friendly" approach to gaining control over rapid ejaculation ever developed. And, unlike techniques like "Stop-Start" and the "Squeeze Technique", it is designed to maximize the pleasure of both people. Jacob Williams has created a logical and powerful strategy for overcoming a sexual difficulty that has bothered many men and their partners. It's now the method I employ with my therapy clients when they say, "I want to last longer." Louanne Cole Weston, Ph.D. Board Certified Sex Therapist Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist "Sex Matters" Health Expert for WebMD. This amazing new book represents an exciting and innovative approach to curing premature ejaculation, and is a must-have addition to any library on male sexuality, whether you suffer from this problem yourself or you're a doctor or therapist who's looking for a new way to help your patients. Order your copy today. ... Read more

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At last! We offer you the truth about erectile dysfunction and what you can do to battle this life-changing medical condition starting right now!Men tend to focus only on one thing when they suffer from erectile dysfunction - the fact that their sex life has taken a turn for the worst. Many men regard this development as one of their worst nightmares come true. Well, the truth is erectile dysfunction is more than just a sexual problem. It cannot be overlooked that the very important concern here is that there may be a medical condition responsible for it. This book will present to you in full blast the facts versus the myths, the many options for conventional medication versus alternative treatment methods, the underlying causes, a portrait of who may be at risk, prevention techniques that can exclusively be learned here,plus a valuable section on appraisals about several effective treatment styles.Is erectile dysfunction causing discontent in the current state of your sex life? Don't let it any longer! ... Read more

Customer Reviews (7)

Every ED patient needs this
Great medical information in here. Thorough, well-explained, and very relevant and useful. Every ED patient needs this. Great buy!

There is hope for treatment
I like how this book describes the emotions that one goes through with this sexual dilemma. It's initial to feel ashamed and insecure, but it provides wonderful recommendation on getting help, and getting treated, and providing hope that it can be treated.

The complete medical journal on ED
This book is the complete medical journal on ED. Fantastic information on facts, dispels most misconceptions on ED, how to get diagnosed, how to treat, talking to your doctor and love ones to get the support you need. Excellent book for individuals and couples going through this sexual problem.

Major points on myths vs. facts
Explains ED very well to the common person, it is thorough but pretty easy to understand. This scored major points to me especially with topics on myths vs. facts, offered a load of very useful info. Would definitely recommend this book!

Gave me enough details to help my husband deal with ED
This is not a problem my husband ought to face on his own. With this book, I am now able to talk to him about this problem. I know enough to calm his insecurities and anxiety, and giving him the support he needs while he gets the necessary treatment. Dealing with this has made us even more intimate and closer as a couple. Huge, huge help to me! ... Read more

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From the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First arrives the definitive guide to managing premature ejaculation – a book that could save your sex life!

Do you suffer from PE? Are you unable to control when you ejaculate? Do you ejaculate within a minute or less of starting intercourse or even during foreplay? Have you tried various methods to deal with PE, only to have your hopes dashed?Do you avoid intimate situations because they could lead to premature ejaculation—so why even bother? Do the words “stop-start” and “squeeze” make you want to scream?

If you answered “yes” to these questions, you could have chronic PE—and you’re not alone. PE is the most common type of sexual dysfunction a man can have, with many experts estimating that up to 30 percent of all men suffer from it.

But now, with new research and a new scientific understanding of PE, comes new techniques and new approaches. The program detailed in this book combines the best of behavioral, medical, and interpersonal modalities.

Ian Kerner, Ph.D, is a sex and relationships counselor and New York Times best-selling author of numerous books for Harper Collins, including "She Comes First" and "Love in the Time of Colic." His journey to counseling grew out of his own personal battle with sexual dysfunction and his desire to help others. He often addresses issues that are common to the “American bedroom” but nonetheless lead to lives of quiet desperation. Ian is a contributor to NBC TODAY, amongst others, and lives his wife and two boys in New York City where he maintains a private practice. ... Read more

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In your gut, you know better—in spite of your partner’sattempts to reassure you that it doesn’t matter. The fact is, youejaculated too soon...again (premature ejaculation). You know thatpremature ejaculation does matter—to both of you.

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This digital document is an article from Clinical Psychiatry News, published by International Medical News Group on March 1, 2005. The length of the article is 462 words. The page length shown above is based on a typical 300-word page. The article is delivered in HTML format and is available in your Amazon.com Digital Locker immediately after purchase. You can view it with any web browser.

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Title: Clomipramine may help men with premature ejaculation.(Across Specialties)
Author: Robert Finn
Publication: Clinical Psychiatry News (Magazine/Journal)
Date: March 1, 2005
Publisher: International Medical News Group
Volume: 33Issue: 3Page: 75(1)

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SERIOUS WARNING: Your life is about to change in a big way. You are going to experience sex as it was MEANT TO BE experienced by nature itself. Massive amounts of pleasure, performance, and endurance.... so much so that it may be VERY inconvenient to your modern lifestyle. Frequent hard erections, powerful long lasting orgasms, soul-shaking bodily ecstacy, and Sudden primal urges to have enormous amounts of hot sex are not uncommon. You better be ready for it. A Leading-Edge Guide To:Revitalize Your Sex DriveBoost Sexual PleasureStop Erectile DysfunctionStop Premature Ejaculation ProblemsDrastically Improve Issues With Your Low LibidoRapidly Regenerate and Recover from Sexual Exhaustion.Stop the negative side effects of chronic over-masturbationEnd the embarrassment caused when suffering from these problems.NOW WITH LOADS OF NEW BONUS CONTENT!This guide is for men 18 and up only. ... Read more

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A Very Informative Book!
If you plan to purchase just one book on this subject, this is the book! The author covers every pertinent area of sexual health and goes an extra step in each; physical fitness, mental health/outlook, vitamin supplements, and self control to name a few. I particularly appreciate the dietary guide, which is concise, yet extremely thorough. There is also an excellent resource and links section that offers a variety of helpful services. I now look forward to the writer's other offerings in this series; "Recession Royalties: How To Make Money Online No Matter What The Economy Is Doing", and "Social Madness!". Keep up the good work.
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A Quick Fix for Premature Power Failure explains briefly how to win the battle against the common handicap of men, the premature softening of the manhood during lovemaking. The will to overcome this problem is strong and all men know why.

Time has proven that man all throughout the world have difficulties in solving this, that it is an impossible dream. Technology has claimed to solve this problem, but this is not for every man, especially those who are unable to afford the expensive treatments.

With this "quick-fix, do-it-yourself" procedure the reader will be surprised to find that the amazing instant result on their first trial is exactly what they are looking for. The answer to "man's" oldest puzzle proves the gift of nature is perfect and complete. ... Read more

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By using the techniques presented in this concise booklet you will:
- last longer & increase your staying power (take control over your sex life)
- avoid embarrassment (greater sex for you and your partner)
- learn what methods can be applied that same night (and which need more time)
- develop your own strategy to overcome PE that suits your sexual life style best (and learn why "PE" is really a group of different sexual problems that can be solved in different ways)
- discover which methods are scientifically proven effective (and which are not)
- rely on the expertise of a professional Swedish Psychologist and Sexologist (no mumbo-jumbo sales pitch here!)

This is groundbreaking program for self-treating premature ejaculation is based on a careful review of professional methods as well as relevant books and scientific articles on the known facts about treatment for this problem.
... Read more

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This book shares the author's successful self-treatment experience from Premature Ejaculation and fully describes the 3 Step Premature Ejaculation Self-Treatment Program that he has developed.

This drug-free self-help program employs the simultaneous use of several manual techniques for controlling ejaculation as one systematic and very effective method for attaining permanent ejaculation control.

The synergistic benefits of simultaneously using several ejaculation control techniques, as opposed to the ineffective results of employing them separately, ensures the success of this ejaculation control program.

This 50-page booklet includes a thorough discussion of the nature of premature ejaculation, since a good understanding of this problem is significant to its cure.

More importantly, the booklet presents in 3 easy steps, with ample illustrations and written in very plain language, the author's formula for learning to permanently solve involuntary ejaculation. With no drugs, ointments nor any weird contraptions to use.

Just a series of very simple intimate exercises(all of which can be done in one's privacy), that will effectively recondition a male person's premature ejaculatory tendencies into a fully controlled sexual behavior. ... Read more

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good idea, bad writing
this book is an extremely poorly written book with a good idea. It is extremely brief: do not expect to learn much about PE. The author writes out of his own (apparently successful) experience in using a series of masturbation and other exercises to treat his own PE.The idea is good, and I image men with PE would be helped by this, but it is extremely poorly written. Grammatical and word-use errors abound and are very distracting from the point the author is trying to make. It appears to have been self-published, without the aid of an editor. ... Read more

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Here's the truth:

Over-masturbation leads to premature ejaculation.

By masturbating more than 2-3 times a week, you weaken your sex drive, because you have drained your body of the natural nutrients, hormones, enzymes, neurotransmitters, and bio-energy required to power up your sexual experience.

It takes an enormous amount of energy to have an orgasm.

This report will show you what to do instead... ... Read more

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Premature ejaculation is awful. It's also unnecessary. These unusual, yet highly effective tips well lead you to Get help for this problems and resolve them right now.

These easy solutions will put your sex life back on track and boost your endurance - and her pleasure - to previously unforeseen levels.

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